We search for love for ourselves through others, we search for appreciation for ourselves through others. Why is it that we can't love ourselves?? Shouldn't the first word of appreciation come from self??
Learning to love ourselves should be the first thing that should be taught but its always other-way round, In school what taught is that you have to be better than the others, there is quite similar scenario at home and we end up comparing ourselves to someone who is totally different from us. Leaving us to pity at our pathetic self.
Everyone has different backgrounds, facilities, body, complexion, brain and a lot more smaller things, the smallest thing all of yours DNA is different. How can you compare yourself with someone so different?? Aren't you insulting your unique self? Stop it now.
We should appreciate the smallest move we have made, the smallest progress, which will turn big someday. Waiting for someone else to recognise your efforts is a waste ... because no one better than you know how it was to be where you are.
Even if you make a tea and it turned out bad, tell yourself "well that was great that I tried, I'll do good next time." Pat on your shoulders yourself even if no one does. Give yourself a treat, buy yourself a present, do things that make you happy. Be the first to appreciate your own efforts.
You will make mistakes and that will be fine if you don't blame yourself over and over above the same and push yourself to do good. Set goals for yourself and reach out to them.
People will come and leave but don't ever stop loving yourself.
If you have come this far reading... I must tell you- you are doing great! You are beautiful! You are intelligent! You are worth it! Just keep moving! Eventually everything will be fine. If someone says otherwise just turn on the music and let them say whatever they want. Because I believe in you and you should too.
Thank you
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Learning to love ourselves should be the first thing that should be taught but its always other-way round, In school what taught is that you have to be better than the others, there is quite similar scenario at home and we end up comparing ourselves to someone who is totally different from us. Leaving us to pity at our pathetic self.
Everyone has different backgrounds, facilities, body, complexion, brain and a lot more smaller things, the smallest thing all of yours DNA is different. How can you compare yourself with someone so different?? Aren't you insulting your unique self? Stop it now.
We should appreciate the smallest move we have made, the smallest progress, which will turn big someday. Waiting for someone else to recognise your efforts is a waste ... because no one better than you know how it was to be where you are.
Even if you make a tea and it turned out bad, tell yourself "well that was great that I tried, I'll do good next time." Pat on your shoulders yourself even if no one does. Give yourself a treat, buy yourself a present, do things that make you happy. Be the first to appreciate your own efforts.
You will make mistakes and that will be fine if you don't blame yourself over and over above the same and push yourself to do good. Set goals for yourself and reach out to them.
People will come and leave but don't ever stop loving yourself.
If you have come this far reading... I must tell you- you are doing great! You are beautiful! You are intelligent! You are worth it! Just keep moving! Eventually everything will be fine. If someone says otherwise just turn on the music and let them say whatever they want. Because I believe in you and you should too.
Thank you
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